How to Tell If You Have Been Gaslit

How to Tell If You Have Been Gaslit

We’re unlucky enough if we meet with people who want to do us wrong, show us contempt and take advantage of us. But this is as nothing next to the monumental bad luck of encountering people who do all this…

Trauma and Forgetting

Trauma and Forgetting

The word ‘trauma’ captures an acute paradox in our relationship to our own histories: some of what is most significant in our lives is inaccessible to day to day memory; the more important something is, the less we may be…

Why It Really Is All About Your Childhood

Why It Really Is All About Your Childhood

The founding principle of modern psychotherapy – that it is all to do with one’s childhood – can sound especially irritating. Why should we be forever tied to things that happened infinitely long ago? Sign up to our new newsletter…