The 7 Things You Can Do to Make a Relationship Work

The 7 Things You Can Do to Make a Relationship Work

We can spend a lot of time in committed relationships wondering, maybe with a fair amount of anxiety: do they love me? Might it all suddenly end? But perhaps less time asking the more salient question: what can I do…

Lasting Love Without Being a Mindreader

Lasting Love Without Being a Mindreader

In relationships, whatever our professed scepticism, we frequently proceed as if mind reading were not only possible but a standard requirement and possibility in love, something of whose absence we would have every right to complain with bitterness and surprise.…