In Praise of Introspective People

In Praise of Introspective People

However healthy it often is to try to fit in and assume we must just be like everyone else, there are also benefits in sometimes accepting that we might in the end not be and this needn’t be a cause…

Why We Can't Learn Without Making Mistakes

Why We Can’t Learn Without Making Mistakes

Part of the pain of growing older is that we can start to see how much, at certain points, we misunderstood ourselves, what the costs of missing self-knowledge were and how beautiful it could be if we could just build…

Why We Are Lonely

Why We Are Lonely

It’s an embarrassing confession, but many of us spend a great deal of our lives asking, week after week, always with the same blend of frustration, despair and puzzlement: Why am I so lonely? The real answer is likely to…

How to Tell If You Have Been Gaslit

How to Tell If You Have Been Gaslit

We’re unlucky enough if we meet with people who want to do us wrong, show us contempt and take advantage of us. But this is as nothing next to the monumental bad luck of encountering people who do all this…

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iPhone: Android: Learn More: The School of Life App is a digital resource for making time for your mental wellbeing. It gathers the very best of our teaching – our films, essays, audio lessons, practical exercises and interactive media –…

Trauma and Forgetting

Trauma and Forgetting

The word ‘trauma’ captures an acute paradox in our relationship to our own histories: some of what is most significant in our lives is inaccessible to day to day memory; the more important something is, the less we may be…

Why It Really Is All About Your Childhood

Why It Really Is All About Your Childhood

The founding principle of modern psychotherapy – that it is all to do with one’s childhood – can sound especially irritating. Why should we be forever tied to things that happened infinitely long ago? Sign up to our new newsletter…

How to Watch the News Media and Stay Sane

How to Watch the News Media and Stay Sane

We are used to thinking of what we call the news as a tool that can help us to vanquish ignorance. But what it continuously – albeit slyly – does is encourage us to forget entirely what we actually feel…